We're under social services and the kids are on child protection list they say for emotional abuse so if I left I couldn't take my daughter with me until they have done an assessment on me and her which I've already asked them to do but haven't heard anything yet. I do most of the housework when she's either asleep or at playgroup. I do all the washing as partner don't know how to work it. Only get to do computer after she's in bed at 7.30pm and then sometimes don't get to go on it until eldest son decides to come off it at about 10pm
My family treat me like a slave but I can't leave. What should I do?cafe racer
CALL NANNY 911, LOL.
My family treat me like a slave but I can't leave. What should I do?free anti virus
You sound like an up to date version of a Catherine
Cookson Novel,... but then, they never had computers !!!
you are most certainly over the age of concent, i.e, your
daughter.....talk to your social worker, write to your MP,
write to your local Citisent Advice Bureau,, write to the
Salvation Army, write to the BBC.... write to anyone you
think might help !!! if all fails, write to the Leagu of Nations
if you think you right,and worth fighting for...GO FOR IT!!!!
I think u got yourself in this mess so get yourself out...Good luck
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you sound very unhappy. also you are clever enough to realise there is more to life than being peoples slaves. You got to find out whats on at nightschool, seriously consider a career of some sort. your children will be grown up very quickly, sounds like you could do very well once they are more independent. lol
Well if you are the mother and not going out to work you would normally do all the housework, If there are problems with your partner then tell him (or her) to leave then things might get easier. You have got social services there already so if you are scared to tell your partner to leave for the good of your family life I'm sure they will back you up.
get off the computer and prove to CSF that you are looking after the kids. you are not a slave, you are living in a world where you have to clean sometimes. get rid of your partner if you want to. but remember that your children come first.
If you pay rent I would suggest saying that because i do the majority of the house I don't think it is fair that I have to do both. I would try to work out a rota so that everyone that is capable of doing certain things must do something to help out.
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